Stop Blaming 'The Other Woman': The Hard Truth About Who’s Really Responsible for an Affair

Hello,

In listening to betrayed spouses, there’s one phrase I hear over and over when it comes to the affair partner: “She’s got no morals.” It often comes out with a mix of pain, disbelief, and anger. What follows is usually a rundown of her behavior—who she’s been with, how often, and most importantly, that she knowingly got involved with a married man.